If we are talking about the relationship, then why we should discuss conflicts?
There are things like love, passion, and responsibility, these can also be discussed, but if we are talking about conflicts than the fact is the consistency of conflicts. It doesn’t matter whether you are loyal, honest, responsible, loving or caring conflicts always push you in the opposite direction.
Just think, what are the things which cause conflicts?
- Rules & regulations (based on individual beliefs)
- Over concern
This one is common among other things priorities are the reason which causes misconception and creates a feeling of ignorance in almost every relationship. Where people are busy with their priorities and their busy schedule affects other emotions, they feel like they are not important in his or her loved one life. And that feeling slowly destroys the softness and love from the heart of the person.
If anyone is possessive or over possessive than the relationship gets in trouble, because the one who is over possessive will not like the closeness of his loved one with anyone, insecurities evolve with closeness. Insecurities develop conflictions which result in arguments later.
Rules & regulations (based on individual beliefs)
If one person is in favor of A than another one is in favor of B, according to the rules and regulations of one person A is right, but according to the rules and regulations of another person, B is right. This conflict between A & B creates an argument and fight later.
This favor doesn’t end on things only they start imposing the life of person also. Later these rules and regulations according to individual beliefs become hurdles of another life, because that individual is not used to with all this, and even according to his or her belief this particular rules and regulations are not right or up to the mark.
There is a well-known thought in Hindi “Ati hi ant ka Karan hai….”
It’s good you are a concern for your loved one but it’s very bad if you are over-concern. Your over concern is boundation for your loved one. He or she has to apply limits on his fun and also cut his modes of happy moments.
How to deal with this?
These all things widen the reasons of conflictions day by day. If you want to stop all this, understand the emotions and feelings of your loved one, and also try to explain your emotions and feelings so that another person should also understand what you want.
Relationship means “the way in which two or more people or things are connected or the state of being connected.”
For any connection a proper network is necessary any breaks in network cause the risk of losing connection, So for better connection try to fix a better network.
Conflicts are not the end they are just a situation that is not in your favor, so the only solution is don’t take any decision based on these conflicts.
Just relax and remind the happy moments and try to experience them again.
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